WHY DO MEN MAKE KIDS BUT DON'T TAKE CARE OF THEM

[Constance clowney]

MY (DAD) NAME IS BILLY CAIN JR. HE WENT TO THIS SCHOOL AND I HAVE FOUND HIM ON THIS AND I AM TRYING TILL THIS DAY UNDERSTAND WHY HE MADE ME AND LEFT ME HIGH AND DRY TO MY MOM ALL BY HERSELF FOR 18 LONG YEARS HE HAS BEEN RUNNING FROM THE POLICE FROM STATE TO STATE AND HAD A NEW CHILD NOT CALLED ME TRY TO GET IN CONTACT WITH ME DIDN'T COME TO MY GRADUATION OR NOTHING SO I AM ASKING WHAT TO DO?

[Mike Garner]

My suggestion for you is to just live your life and forget about him. Hei is going to do what he is go do. Let the Lord decide his fate. He will have to answer one day to you and the good man above. The other thing is make him regret not having anything to do with you.Be a good person as I feel you are. Dont become content with life and allow certain things to take it over ie. drugs etc... ( Not saying that you do) Just be a better person than your sperm donar. Teach your children, when and if you have them, how to treat the opposite gender. Tell them honestly of your upbringing. Dont allow them to have the same fate by choosing that potential "BUSTER" that MARIO spoke about. Good Luck....

[Tamara]

YOU SHOULD MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE! YOU HAVE BEEN MAKING IT THIS FAR AND LIFE SO KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND KEEP TRUCKING!!

[Andreal L. Robinson]

Hey, I would like to have a word with you.

[Angela C.]

Honey i know it's hard trying to understand the faults and mishaps of others but don't keep living your life wondering why he chose to miss out on your life. Maybe you were better off without him. Just pray on it and ask God to release you from all of the heart ache and pain that you have been carrying on for all these years. It may not seem like it right now but you will be better off.

[Stacye M. Prince]

Men that make kids n don't take care of them aren't men they r pussys

[Shalanda McLean Fox]

The best advice that I can give is the same as the one that I gave my daughter who was in the same situation. Forgive him and make on. You may never know the why and as long as you let it hurt you or be something that you focus on you will never be able to see past it. Take the energy that you are putting into this and put it on getting an education and making something of yourself. He will eventually come around and if not then realize that it is what it is and wish him well and move on.

Don't let it cloud your life. My daughter (20) realizes that it is his loss because he missed out on meeting one of the best people that I know.

[Andreal L. Robinson]

I'm feeling your pain. I’ve never experience this with my parents, but I am a single mommy. Things will get better, just stop dwelling on the past. You can never progress in life looking back. What is done is “already” done. You are here for a reason… Thank God for allowing you to see another day. Do remember to count your many blessings and see what God has done for you. Keep the faith and be strong. This is a storm ranging in your life; trust me this too will past. I’m not taking sides anyone but our family has the tendency to dip and dap and should give good advice. That’s not always the case. I feel that you will be ok.

[Darrell Pierce]

Are these type of discussions the only ones on this site.... Everyone gives the same answers. If we could look at other discussions, maybe some different topics can be heard. I don't want to put down the question, because I have five kids and they all live with me and they are well taken care of....