Guys When Will You Pay Your Child Support?

[Chris]

I deal with guys on the regular who try to explain "why" they don't pay child support.......when will you STEP UP!

[teresa nash]

SOME MEN AND ALSO WOMEN, THINK SUPPORT IS JUST MONEY. DON'T JUST GIVE MONEY, GIVE TIME. AND THEN THEY WILL KNOW THAT 50.00WK IS NOT ENOUGH. PAYING MONEY IS THE EASY WAY OUT. MAYBE THAT IS WHY MEN HAVE KIDS BY DIFFERENT WOMEN AND THEN MARRY SOMEBODY ELSE,.BECAUSE THEY ARE JUST GIVING MONEY AND NO TIME.

[jackie preek hallman]

your right 50.00 aint nothing these days. but you as a mother has to provide for kids. dont never wait for him to do. just do your part and god will do the rest.

[Darrell Pierce]

obviously, this phrase you're speaking of is slanted. Woman always speak on men who don't pay child support. Are men the wrong person in some case? What about the women that don't allow certain men too see their children? What about the women that are at home, that spend more time in the club,or streets and their children fend for themselves, and then leave the fathers to pay child support to be hateful. We can't say anything about one side without reflecting on the other. It should be a law that only two focus, responsible people should only be allowed to have children, because one person is no better than the other. It's just crazy to sleep with someone on a whim and even crazier to father or mother a child by that person.

[Harold Farrell Hilliard]

I agree with you homie! Some people just have kids by the wrong women. Then that wrong women thinks she's making the right moves. I know catz right now in the Burg, wants to take care of that baby but the woman is giving them a hard time because buddy founded someone else... Now she's streaming "Child Support". Well I look at it this way.... If I can't see my kids when I want to, then I will get my own paper work to see and get them sometime. If I am paying childs support, then Iwill do extra when I got my kids. Not because the woman,...(girl) streaming "child support". Some females aren't mature enough for kids, but yet they have them. Some men aren't mature enough either, but yet they have them. The baby is not mature at all, but yet they are here. Who is the blame for men not paying child support? Only a idiot would not participate. And only a fool would not role modeled. I have 6 kids. 5 biologically and they are all by 1 woman. I take care of all 6. I don't want my children lacking for nothing. I lacked already when I was a child growing up on Coleman Ave. My kids will never witness this, because I'll go BROKE for them. And thats real talk! Some females need to just put that bull crap aside. Don't lock the black man up, because later own down the line, when that kid is grown and you have "RAISED THEM RIGHT", it will lock him up emotionally. But if you don't raised them right and they become thugs, hoes, muts, faggets..... Then you wasn't there for your child either. And buddy will never WANT to be involve in that. It's not the child support...... Get a JOB if buddy is not there and stop whinning. Focus on those kids.... The streets will take them under......QUICK!

[jackie preek hallman]

I must say brother from yours words.your one of the real mans. you know boys makes babys.but only men takes care of them.god bless.preek out

[jackie preek hallman]

your right brother.but if a woman is like that, hold your head up as a farther, and keep doing good by the children. you will get that back one day.god bless

[Tonya Washington]

I agree we do have vindictive women who use the system to hurt the father of their babies, solely because they no longer desire to have an relationship with them, which is a sad but very real senario. We also, have women who want the father's pay their child support but be a part of the childs life. We also have father's who completely turn their backs on their child and forget their responsibilities. In my eyes, that is a sorry man. The bottom line is evaluate the person you're sleeping with, because that just may be the person you are tied to for the next 18+ years, and men tend to be very visual when selecting their mate or booty calls. I feel the majority of the mothers who seek child support do it for valid reasons they have to responsibility of making sure the kids eat, have a roof over their heads, have the basic necessities they need, etc. The child belongs to both the mother and father, wether you and the individual are together or not, the child is still the mother and father's responsibilty, financially and emotionally. A mother doesn't have the option to go to their child and say, you can eat tonight, because I don't have the money. Or I really want to pay my child support but I have other responsibilities. The one thing I hate to see is a man turn his back on his own flesh and blood, but take care of another womans child, or allow a woman to come in between their relaionship with their child. It's many senarios to this child support issue, I just wished that the men who know they are not doing what they are supposed to do,step up to the plate and be a man and take care of your responsibilities. The kids suffer much more than you could ever imagine........ It's not about you, it's about the kids......

[Darrell Pierce]

True statement. What you speak of is well documented. It's true, it is all about the kids but that is not the way it always goes. Don't call the man sorry, because at the sametime some men want to take care of thier children and do. I could easily say that i dislike these lazy no good woman. What about the men who would rather have the children at home with them? what about the men who want to provide that child with the necessary thing that the child need but won't because the mother just wants a check. I am a father of 5 children and none of those children want for anything, I was also selective in my choosing of the mother. Again as I said before there should be a law that only two responsible and capable people should have children. How can we deny the well-being of a child? We can talk about who's responsibility it is, but until one of them acts reponsible ,we will have this same problem.

[jackie preek hallman]

very good response. you do have some to turn there backs on there kids .but those men aint men there boys.there better off gone.

[jackie preek hallman]

your right .

[Dayatra Deveda Stroman (McCray)]

I read a few of the posted comments. All of this depends on the people involved. A person should be allowed to see their kids whether they pay the support or not, because they are not paying to see their child. However if it is that important to see their child, then they should go to court for joint custody. So then you papers to get regular visitations. I on the other had have a father who just do not want to spend time with his daughter. When she calls him, he hangs up on her. If I hear one more time, well she don't call me. I feel it's the parent's job to call to see about their child.

[jackie preek hallman]

deveda thats not a farther.thats a child in a boys body.