1. Go through his stuff when he is away from the house.
Go through his stuff and his car when he is sleeping.
2. Purcahse a telephone listening device from radio shack ladies.
3.Purchase a GPS system from best buy to track his whereabouts.
4. You ride with a girlfriend in a car that has tinted windows they your man does not know.
5.You hire a Private Investigator to get your evidence.
6. You hire a woman divorce lawyer.
7.You take him to the cleaners for everything.
DATS WHY IM SINGLE. I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR THAT. IM TRYING TO ENJOY MY LIFE, I DON'T KNOW WHEN MY LAST DAY ON EARTH MAY BE. LET THE MEN CHEAT, WE ARE BETTER AT IT ANYWAY.LOL
Who has time for all this, if you have to do all that then he is not worth being with. Never go looking for anything because you will find it. Remember what you do in the dark will come to the light. One way or the other.
Odds are if you suspect it, it is probably true. Question is whether you still love him/her after you find out. Given enough time (50 yrs) I'm sure the other person will come up short in one department or another. Question is still the same - do you love the person in spite of their failure. Love is a splintered thing. If you want a perfect spouse - do yourself a favor and don't get married. I don't say this only in reference to cheating. I say it in reference to all that things that destroy marriages like gambling, throwing away all the family's money and just plain hatefulness. Marriage forces you to grow yourself, and your understanding of mankind. It isn't all fun and games and some days it freakin' sucks. If you want fun, go to Carowinds. If you want a life time of work and self-growth (and sometimes a messed up love relationship) get married. Its the most adult thing you can do, especially when the baby shows up. Marriage is so hard sometimes I've heard married men dreaming about paying child-support and spending time alone. Money seemed irrelevant to them. Some guys want to get caught so their wives can divorce them. They really want their freedom. Don't let them off the hook. Remain married to them and force them to face their sin, that is if they still want their home. To many men suffering in marriage, that's far worse than a divorce. (LOL)
THATS WHAT YOU DO IF YOU WANT TO RUN A MAN OFF. TRUST GOD. YOU THINK GOD IS PLEASED WITH THIS BS. I JUST HOPE THAT NO ONE HAS TO GO TO THESE EXTREMES. IT IS NOT GOOD FOR ANYONE'S HEALTH, AND THAT GOES FOR ANYONE NOT JUST MY PEEPS.
Wow, somebody sounds peed! If my man was cheating.......which he is not.......I hope it was good, cause that is where he will be getting the goodies from.......from this day forward. Gordon, you know anybody who may be cheating? (Implied information) That is some scand-o-lous ish. I am cracking up reading that. What ever happen to just smelling it! OHHHHHHH, I swear I am laughing so hard I am about to vomit! This is rich.
Whether I know if someone is cheating is irrelevant. My take on things is your business is YOUR business. It is not for the whole OW ROUNDUP, or the continental US to know. HOLLA. Thank you Chris for your input. You are on it about marriage.
I have one simple rule......Don't put yourself in a position for me to question you and I won't. I don't have the time to be running behind some one to find out what they are doing. If I feel like I have to question you because of your actions then there is no need for us to be together. The reality is that while people do make mistakes some mistakes such as infidelity can be life threatening. You have no idea how many spouses come into the pharmacy to pick up prescriptions for diseases that were obtained due to infidelity in a marital relationship. Today, cheating is not just an action it can be a death wish to a partner who thought they were in a monogamous relationship. ie. imagine a husband who obtained HIV and gave it to his wife who was breastfeeding. This is a worst case situation..unfortunately it happened.